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Best and Worst of the Oscars

by pbergman 9. March 2010 03:00

I usually wait to make my final calls on Oscars fashion until I've watched the wrap-up shows and read what all of the "experts" have to say.  I like to gauge how on-point my first-gut reactions are with Hollywood insiders and note which looks I loved that others hated, and who supposedly looked great that I thought fell flat.  One of the dresses that got a lot of negative publicity that I actually thought was great was the berry colored Marchesa gown worn by Vera Farmiga.  Yes, those were a lot of ruffles, but the color was stunning and the whole look really just worked for me!  Also at the top of my "Absolutely Stunning" list: Demi Moore looked amazing for ANY age (though her 50+ years makes her even more impressive), Cameron Diaz has never looked more glamorous, Oprah looked stunning in that midnight blue dress (and her body looks great!), Elizabeth Banks' gray Versace gown was a welcome color-change and her Fred Leighton jewels were the perfect accompaniment....and best of the best, in my humble opinion, was Helen Mirren.  She looked FABULOUS!  She may not have taken home the Oscar, but she definitely gets my vote for best dressed at the 2010 Oscars!

 

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Red Carpet Fashion for a Cause

by pbergman 20. January 2010 07:47

I love award season.  Not only are Ira and I huge movie buffs so we're interested in seeing who took home what, but I'm also intensely interested in the fashions that glide down the red carpet!  I could go on and on about some of my favorite (and least favorite) looks from last Sunday's Golden Globes, but I'll leave it to some of my favorite blogs to go into detail on that subject, especially as it relates to jewelry.  I just wanted to mention how pleased I was to hear that many celebrities, including the infinitely talented Meryl Streep and the stunning Olivia Wilde, are auctioning off their red carpet looks to benefit a charity organization in Haiti, "It's my way of turning all this fashion madness into something positive," Olivia explained.  I love seeing fashion and jewelry turned into a good cause, and I'm so happy that the fashion media is picking this up and spreading the good word.  The auction takes place on ebay next week, don't forget to tune in and bid! 

 

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Living Longer and Better

by pbergman 16. January 2010 01:39

Happy New Year, everyone!  What a great time the jewelry industry had last weekend with Kenny Rogers at the 24 Karat Dinner and Madeline Albright at the JIC Gem Awards!  Ira and I had a wonderful time re-connecting with old friends and making new friends; it was a great way to kick off a new and prosperous year!   

I'll get back to blogging about me and Ira and our relationship soon, but in the meantime, I read a great article in the NY Times today and, in the spirit of New Year's Resolutions, I wanted to share.  The Lancet recently published a projection of a century-long rise in life expectancy, and the Time's article focuses on how to live well so that we can actually enjoy these extra years.  I, for one, hope to live many more happy years with Ira, and so I fully intend to take some of the Time's suggestions to heart!  Tragedies like what happened in Haiti are so devastating, and they make us really appreciate the people in our lives and cause us to be grateful that they are healthy and happy, we just need to remember that we all need to work to keep ourselves that way!

While I am happy that Mayor Bloomberg fought against trans fat and I think we're all better off for it, I'm still not sure how I feel about his crusade against salt.  In any event, most of what we need to do to keep ourselves healthy are pretty common sense things.  Eat more fruits and vegies, fewer meats, incorporate more beans and whole grains and into our diets, take calcium and vitamin D supplements and, I know you know it's coming, exercise!  Luckily for me, I live in New York City, which is an extremely enjoyable place to walk around (yes, even in the cold!), and a delicious walk home from dinner with Ira is a perfect way for us to spend time together while also getting our blood flowing.  If you don't like hitting the gym, like so few of us do, remember, you just need to find some physical activity that you enjoy--dancing, walking, snow shoeing, whatever--and just keep moving!   

It's a new year folks, let's all make a commitment to ourselves to get and stay healthy so that we can continue to enjoy each other's company for many years to come! 

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All about Ira

by pbergman 28. August 2009 14:21
Ira, on the other hand, was a little more introverted, very mature, intense, and loved sports, sports and more sports along with a little music and movies. He thought life was all about being a good provider. We often joke that, when he was younger, he couldn't play with his baseball cards untill he finished his school work. I believe that this thought has stayed with him even to this day. Perhaps the hardest lesson that Ira had to overcome was the idea that you could play and still be a responsible person at the same time. 

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Our story continued

by pbergman 21. August 2009 15:04

Even though Ira & I had similar backgrounds our personalities were distinctly different. I was more extraverted, more adventurous, and had traveled much more than Ira. I loved the arts, especially theatre,music and the movies. I was much more romantic,especially in my thoughts and really looking forward to my role as housewife and mother,with all the trappings( a home, a car, a fireplace, children and a dog) In no special order! Sort of Ozzie & Harriet in living color! At least, that's what I thought I wanted.

 

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I'm Back

by pbergman 12. August 2009 15:54

I'm back to my blog! For the past several months Ira & I have been developing a new jewelry idea. THE 5 CECRETS-of an everlasting relationship. We wanted to convey to someone what it takes to make a marriage or any kind of relationship really work and we wanted to do this through our product. Hence the 5 CECRET Diamond Band. Each diamond is set into the letter C representing the 5 CERETS for an everlasting relationship----and what are they

COMMITMENT
COMMUNICATION
COMPROMISE
COMPASSION
COMPLIMENT

Seems so easy doesn't it? And yet people so often forget. We hope the ring will be a constant reminder. More about the CECRETS later. It's fun to be back!!!!!!

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Meet Phyllis and Ira

by pbergman 20. March 2009 15:56

So before we start talking about relationships I think you have to understand what makes people tick. Everyone brings some baggage to a relationship.

My husband & I were born in New York City and attended all New York schools up through and including college. We went from living with our parents to living with each other(of course marriage came first in those days). We married very young,actually we really grew up together. We had our first child exactly one year after we were married. Our roles were very clearly defined for us by our parents and society. Ira was the provider, the bread winner, and I took care of the house and the children. We had children because that was the thing to do. All of our friends did the same and i'm proud to say that we are all still happily married to our original spouses( 8 couples) In those days ,your success in life was measured by having a family and then providing for them. This held true for both sexes!  To be continued...

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The Best Teddy Bear Ever!!!!!

by pbergman 19. March 2009 10:58

Since our company is so involved in creating jewelry that celebrates the most important relationships in life, I have decided to devote my future blogs to answering the question “ what makes relationships really work.” My plan is to eventually write a book on relationships. Please feel free to write and tell me stories about your special relationships . In December, my husband Ira and I celebrated our 50th anniversary. The remarkable thing about attaining this milestone is that we both still feel the same as when we met years ago!!!! I would like to tell you what it takes to maintain that feeling. In this crazy world today, it’s so important to have a teddy bear! I consider a fabulous relationship THE BEST TEDDY BEAR EVER!!!

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Africa Photos

by pbergman 12. November 2008 15:24
Click this link to see some of my photos from my Africa trip!

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2011076&l=32fd6&id=1183743133

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Around the jewelry world in 60 days

by pbergman 11. November 2008 11:15
AROUND THE JEWELRY WORLD IN 60 DAYS

Well I’m back in New York after a whirlwind two months of travel looking for what’s new in the jewelry industry. September 10th flew to Bangkok to attend the Bangkok jewelry show. I love Bangkok. It is so exotic! Arrived the 11th in the evening and by the next day I was up and running. I visited several factories. Amazing! One had over 1600 workers. At lunch time they all ate outside under a canopy. Vendors lined the street on either side to sell food. After buying their lunch they took their seats at long tables of 12 the factory provided pots of rice for each table. This particular factory also provided day care and recreational facilities for the employees. Didn’t see anything new and really exciting at the show. A lot of color, of course it is Thailand!, and some interesting use of black rhodium.

Left Bangkok and arrived in Hong Kong to attend the Hong Kong jewelry show. I must say it was not as crowded as last year. Very few Americans attending. Of course, the day we arrived the news about Lehman Brothers and the financial markets hit the press. The entire world was in turmoil. Not the best atmosphere to have a jewelry buying show. It was also the end of Ramadan so many mid-eastern buyers were not there either.

However, everyone tried to put on a positive face and think ahead to the coming buying season. We saw a lot of large stones, many rings & pendants with large south sea pearls, actually a lot of pearls in all different colors. Diamonds were still quite popular especially in large earrings. White gold or platinum was the predominate color of metal choice with yellow gold showing up in fashion pieces. I saw a lot of silver fashion jewelry and some mixes of metals especially in bands.

Hong Kong has really changed over the years. It is quite modern now with fabulous architecture. Ate in a marvelous Chinese restaurant called Hautong on the Kowloon side. Rode the Star Ferry, a must for each visit to Hong Kong. Then off to the U.S. to prepare for my DeBeers press trip to South Africa.

In between, I flew to L.A. for a weekend at Disneyland with my little granddaughter. How exciting it was to be in the park pre-Halloween. The decorations were amazing and as I watched hundreds of families enter the park I thought what a wonderful idea Walt Disney had to give all ages a place to come together, be happy and enjoy family. Very Special!!!

And then it was Friday October17 and time to leave for our most marvelous adventure.
Ira & I had never been to South Africa so we really did not know what to expect. Our plane took off from JFK and 18 hours later we arrived in Johannesburg and were whisked away to our hotel where we met all the other people on our trip. They included a fashion designer, a Hollywood stylist, the head of the diamond department for Sotheby’s, the editor of Bridal magazine, a gentleman from Botswana, the jewelry editor of British Vogue, a writer for the Financial Times and several people from the D.I.C and DeBeers in London.

Our first day we toured the Soweto area of Johannesburg and visited some dwellings of squatters. We discovered that the regentrification of Soweto is taking place in several areas. The next day we visited the DeBeers headquarters and later experienced first hand the feeding program that DeBeers funds for the children of the Soweto area. For many this is the only meal they have that day, a glass of milk and 2 slices of whole wheat bread spread with peanut butter. Ira and I had the privilege of giving out the food. I cannot tell you how happy & thankful these children were. Then on to the apartheid museum where we learned about what happened during those years in South Africa. On the morning of the third day we visited The Cotlands orphanage which is also funded in a large part by DeBeers. This orphanage is a very special place for babies with aids whose parents have died probabably of the same disease. I thought I would be so depressed going to Cotlands but instead I felt very uplifted that these children were given such excellent care, enabling them to go to school and become members of their community. We also visited the CIDA University which provides opportunities for young blacks to study and enter the job market thereby empowering these wonderful young people so they can earn a living and achieve their place in society. Meeting the young people and hearing them tell their stories, was a heartwarming experience for all of us in the group. Then on to the Graff cutting factory where we saw some amazing diamonds. No Samples. Our visit to Johannesburg ended with a beautiful dinner where we tasted many delicious African foods.

Wednesday, we flew to Botswana and went directly to the Debswana offices. This company represents the joint venture between DeBeers and the country of Botswana. We learned how important the diamond mining business is to the economy of  Botswana providing many job opportunities and funding many social programs. By the way- Did you know that DeBeers took its name from the farmer who discovered diamonds on his property? His name was DeBeers!!!! We also visited the rough sorting factory and the Steinmetz cutting factory. Amazing! Mostly everything these days is done by hi-tec machines. While in the city of Gaborone, we visited with the ex-president of Botswana, The Honorable Festus G. Mogae, who just the day before had won a $1.5 million dollar peace prize for fostering good government. That evening we were treated to a private showing of the made for TV movie adaptation of the #1 FIRST LADIES DETECTIVE AGENCY. Since the story takes place in Botswana, it was a natural to film it there. It will be shown on HBO in March. It was delightful.

 The next day it was off to the diamond mines. We really did not know what to expect. What we found was a very large open pit, think Grand Canyon, where alluvial mining is done by machinery. I was told that for every 100 tons of dirt excavated they can recover somewhere between 10-100 carats of diamonds. Now I know why diamonds are so precious and so expensive.

Then off to a game preserve for 24 hours of safaris which I may add was incredible. We bid our fond farewells to all our new friends and boarded the plane for our 18 hour trip back to the states.

In the past 60 days, I have learned that no matter where I traveled there is great concern for the health of the diamond jewelry industry. We must be very creative as we approach the coming year. I wish a fantastic holiday season for everyone. Enjoy your families and the time that you can share together.

 

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As the president of Mercury Ring Corporation, Phyllis Bergman oversees all aspects of the company, including sales, design, operations, marketing, and client relations.

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