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Our story continued

by pbergman 21. August 2009 15:04

Even though Ira & I had similar backgrounds our personalities were distinctly different. I was more extraverted, more adventurous, and had traveled much more than Ira. I loved the arts, especially theatre,music and the movies. I was much more romantic,especially in my thoughts and really looking forward to my role as housewife and mother,with all the trappings( a home, a car, a fireplace, children and a dog) In no special order! Sort of Ozzie & Harriet in living color! At least, that's what I thought I wanted.

 

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I'm Back

by pbergman 12. August 2009 15:54

I'm back to my blog! For the past several months Ira & I have been developing a new jewelry idea. THE 5 CECRETS-of an everlasting relationship. We wanted to convey to someone what it takes to make a marriage or any kind of relationship really work and we wanted to do this through our product. Hence the 5 CECRET Diamond Band. Each diamond is set into the letter C representing the 5 CERETS for an everlasting relationship----and what are they

COMMITMENT
COMMUNICATION
COMPROMISE
COMPASSION
COMPLIMENT

Seems so easy doesn't it? And yet people so often forget. We hope the ring will be a constant reminder. More about the CECRETS later. It's fun to be back!!!!!!

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Meet Phyllis and Ira

by pbergman 20. March 2009 15:56

So before we start talking about relationships I think you have to understand what makes people tick. Everyone brings some baggage to a relationship.

My husband & I were born in New York City and attended all New York schools up through and including college. We went from living with our parents to living with each other(of course marriage came first in those days). We married very young,actually we really grew up together. We had our first child exactly one year after we were married. Our roles were very clearly defined for us by our parents and society. Ira was the provider, the bread winner, and I took care of the house and the children. We had children because that was the thing to do. All of our friends did the same and i'm proud to say that we are all still happily married to our original spouses( 8 couples) In those days ,your success in life was measured by having a family and then providing for them. This held true for both sexes!  To be continued...

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The Best Teddy Bear Ever!!!!!

by pbergman 19. March 2009 10:58

Since our company is so involved in creating jewelry that celebrates the most important relationships in life, I have decided to devote my future blogs to answering the question “ what makes relationships really work.” My plan is to eventually write a book on relationships. Please feel free to write and tell me stories about your special relationships . In December, my husband Ira and I celebrated our 50th anniversary. The remarkable thing about attaining this milestone is that we both still feel the same as when we met years ago!!!! I would like to tell you what it takes to maintain that feeling. In this crazy world today, it’s so important to have a teddy bear! I consider a fabulous relationship THE BEST TEDDY BEAR EVER!!!

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Africa Photos

by pbergman 14. November 2008 14:24
Click this link to see some of my photos from my Africa trip!

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2011076&l=32fd6&id=1183743133

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Around the jewelry world in 60 days

by pbergman 13. November 2008 11:15
AROUND THE JEWELRY WORLD IN 60 DAYS

Well I’m back in New York after a whirlwind two months of travel looking for what’s new in the jewelry industry. September 10th flew to Bangkok to attend the Bangkok jewelry show. I love Bangkok. It is so exotic! Arrived the 11th in the evening and by the next day I was up and running. I visited several factories. Amazing! One had over 1600 workers. At lunch time they all ate outside under a canopy. Vendors lined the street on either side to sell food. After buying their lunch they took their seats at long tables of 12 the factory provided pots of rice for each table. This particular factory also provided day care and recreational facilities for the employees. Didn’t see anything new and really exciting at the show. A lot of color, of course it is Thailand!, and some interesting use of black rhodium.

Left Bangkok and arrived in Hong Kong to attend the Hong Kong jewelry show. I must say it was not as crowded as last year. Very few Americans attending. Of course, the day we arrived the news about Lehman Brothers and the financial markets hit the press. The entire world was in turmoil. Not the best atmosphere to have a jewelry buying show. It was also the end of Ramadan so many mid-eastern buyers were not there either.

However, everyone tried to put on a positive face and think ahead to the coming buying season. We saw a lot of large stones, many rings & pendants with large south sea pearls, actually a lot of pearls in all different colors. Diamonds were still quite popular especially in large earrings. White gold or platinum was the predominate color of metal choice with yellow gold showing up in fashion pieces. I saw a lot of silver fashion jewelry and some mixes of metals especially in bands.

Hong Kong has really changed over the years. It is quite modern now with fabulous architecture. Ate in a marvelous Chinese restaurant called Hautong on the Kowloon side. Rode the Star Ferry, a must for each visit to Hong Kong. Then off to the U.S. to prepare for my DeBeers press trip to South Africa.

In between, I flew to L.A. for a weekend at Disneyland with my little granddaughter. How exciting it was to be in the park pre-Halloween. The decorations were amazing and as I watched hundreds of families enter the park I thought what a wonderful idea Walt Disney had to give all ages a place to come together, be happy and enjoy family. Very Special!!!

And then it was Friday October17 and time to leave for our most marvelous adventure.
Ira & I had never been to South Africa so we really did not know what to expect. Our plane took off from JFK and 18 hours later we arrived in Johannesburg and were whisked away to our hotel where we met all the other people on our trip. They included a fashion designer, a Hollywood stylist, the head of the diamond department for Sotheby’s, the editor of Bridal magazine, a gentleman from Botswana, the jewelry editor of British Vogue, a writer for the Financial Times and several people from the D.I.C and DeBeers in London.

Our first day we toured the Soweto area of Johannesburg and visited some dwellings of squatters. We discovered that the regentrification of Soweto is taking place in several areas. The next day we visited the DeBeers headquarters and later experienced first hand the feeding program that DeBeers funds for the children of the Soweto area. For many this is the only meal they have that day, a glass of milk and 2 slices of whole wheat bread spread with peanut butter. Ira and I had the privilege of giving out the food. I cannot tell you how happy & thankful these children were. Then on to the apartheid museum where we learned about what happened during those years in South Africa. On the morning of the third day we visited The Cotlands orphanage which is also funded in a large part by DeBeers. This orphanage is a very special place for babies with aids whose parents have died probabably of the same disease. I thought I would be so depressed going to Cotlands but instead I felt very uplifted that these children were given such excellent care, enabling them to go to school and become members of their community. We also visited the CIDA University which provides opportunities for young blacks to study and enter the job market thereby empowering these wonderful young people so they can earn a living and achieve their place in society. Meeting the young people and hearing them tell their stories, was a heartwarming experience for all of us in the group. Then on to the Graff cutting factory where we saw some amazing diamonds. No Samples. Our visit to Johannesburg ended with a beautiful dinner where we tasted many delicious African foods.

Wednesday, we flew to Botswana and went directly to the Debswana offices. This company represents the joint venture between DeBeers and the country of Botswana. We learned how important the diamond mining business is to the economy of  Botswana providing many job opportunities and funding many social programs. By the way- Did you know that DeBeers took its name from the farmer who discovered diamonds on his property? His name was DeBeers!!!! We also visited the rough sorting factory and the Steinmetz cutting factory. Amazing! Mostly everything these days is done by hi-tec machines. While in the city of Gaborone, we visited with the ex-president of Botswana, The Honorable Festus G. Mogae, who just the day before had won a $1.5 million dollar peace prize for fostering good government. That evening we were treated to a private showing of the made for TV movie adaptation of the #1 FIRST LADIES DETECTIVE AGENCY. Since the story takes place in Botswana, it was a natural to film it there. It will be shown on HBO in March. It was delightful.

 The next day it was off to the diamond mines. We really did not know what to expect. What we found was a very large open pit, think Grand Canyon, where alluvial mining is done by machinery. I was told that for every 100 tons of dirt excavated they can recover somewhere between 10-100 carats of diamonds. Now I know why diamonds are so precious and so expensive.

Then off to a game preserve for 24 hours of safaris which I may add was incredible. We bid our fond farewells to all our new friends and boarded the plane for our 18 hour trip back to the states.

In the past 60 days, I have learned that no matter where I traveled there is great concern for the health of the diamond jewelry industry. We must be very creative as we approach the coming year. I wish a fantastic holiday season for everyone. Enjoy your families and the time that you can share together.

 

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Where did the summer go!

by pbergman 8. September 2008 13:48

My summer actually started on Memorial Day when I flew to Las Vegas to spend 12 days at the jewelry trade show being held there. 12 days in Vegas! Can you imagine? I managed to mix a little fun in with a lot of work. Business was certainly off from last year. Everyone seemed a hesitant to buy inventory for their stores. I guess everyone was concerned about the economy, rising gas prices and precious metal prices. Thank goodness people are still getting married and buying engagement rings even if the price points are a little lower. Our attainable platinum pieces did quite well and the same for palladium product. As for the fun- I am now on the board of directors of the Diamond Empowerment along with Russell Simmons. Russell was the keynote speaker at JCk show in Vegas. He was a hit! Everyone enjoyed him. We had a large cocktail party where Russell met some of our industry leaders. Very fun. Got to see the Cher show and loved it. Came home exhausted!

June- Busy trying to fill all the orders we took at the show and eagerly looking forward to summer vacation

July- Ah! Two weeks of vacation. Finally!-Flew to Los Angeles to visit my two year old grandchild and the drove down to Mexico to a marvelous health ranch with my husband,daughter,son-in-law,grandson and son and daughter-in-law. Three generations vacationing together and it was great. Everyone did their own thing! Very relaxing.

Left the ranch and spent two days in Santa Monica and then back to Las Vegas for 3 days. No work just play! Tried different restaurants and saw some shows. It was 110 degrees! Couldn’t do much during the day except sit in the pool.

Mid July flew to Chicago to be part of a fact finding committee to discuss the possibility of a new trade show in March at Navy Pier. I think it is a go.

Flew home and immediately left for the Hamptons. Would you believe I lived in New York and had never been to the Hamptons. We were invited out for the weekend to attend three major events. Friday night was VH1 Save The Music hosted by Morris & Jaci Reid (Jaci is also a board member of DEF). Neo & Solange performed. A beautiful night! Saturday was Russell’s Simmons party for his ART FOR LIFE foundation. 750 of his nearest & dearest had dinner on his lawn and an auction at the dinner helped raise a lot of money for the cause. Met the governor of New York, Mr. Patterson. Many celebrities. The color for the evening was lavender. Everyone looked beautiful and the lavender tablecloths and fans certainly added to the décor. Most fun was the Ben & Jerry truck that was opened for business all night. Ice cream sundaes anytime you wished. Yum! Sunday Jason Binn had a beach party for his company Niche Media. All blue & white. The beach looked like an island in Greece.

Back to New York & we get ready for the New York Jewelry show which took place at the Javits center the end of July. Another quiet show. Looks like the economy is still in the doldrums. Lot’s of parties during the show. Women’s Jewelry Association had a big dinner and silent auction celebrating their 25th anniversary. They honored all the past Hall of Fame winners including yours truly and also recognized Sybil Yurman and Steven Kaiser for their contributions to the industry. Great night! Tuesday night the American Gem Society had their Circle of Distinction dinner at the Rainbow room where they honored my good friend Anna Martin of ABN Amro bank. It was fun to see all my colleagues. Also had a meeting with Madeline Albright’s chief of staff. It seems Madeline is going to write a book about how her famous pin collection affected historic events during her term as Secretary of State. She is also planning a big launch in New York of the book along with the collection and they wanted my advice on how to go about it.

August - Well with only three days of recuperation I was off to the next trade show. The Independent Jewelers show (IJO Show) in Philadelphia. Spirits were much higher at this show and more retailers seemed in a buying mood. Philadelphia turned out to be an interesting town with lots of great restaurants and coming from New York that is a compliment.

Back to the office for two days and then on to Nantucket where we met my daughter, son-in-law and grandsons for a sailing weekend in Nantucket. The weather was beautiful and we were able to stay on the boat and listen to the Boston Pops perform on the breach with a guest appearance by Joel Grey.

Back home to New York where the most exciting invitation awaited us. Please join PENELOPE CRUZ, JAVIER BARDEM And PATRICIA CLARKSON for the premier showing of their movie VICKY CRISTINA BARCELONA in New York to be followed by a private dinner after the showing at the Plaza Athena Hotel in New York. Of course I accepted! The evening was co-sponsored by the Diamond Information Center and the Sherry Industry of Spain. Needless to say the photographer did not snap our picture as we walked down the red carpet but they certainly snapped all the stars that were there including Katie Couric, John Tuturro, Russell Simmons and Harvey Weinstein. The movie, written by Woody Allen was enjoyable and the scenes of Barcelona were extraordinary as were Javier Bardem and Penelope Cruz. What a perfect way to end what turned out to be a very exciting summer.

September - I am now awaiting the arrival of our new 2008-2009 catalogue which should be arriving from the printer any day now.  I am very excited about it because instead of stock photos we have used actual photos of LIFE & LOVE events from our family. Since we feel we are all about our relationships with our customers we thought it would be fun to share our family relationships with them. Also we worked closely with the Platinum Guild to bring more attainable platinum product to our customers.

What’s next—I am off to Bangkok and Hong Kong to attend the trade shows there. It will be fun to be someone who walks around rather than someone who sits in a booth all day. I am looking forward to sharing with you the trends that I find and my analysis of what’s going on in the industry on an international level.

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JUST RETURNED FROM ALBUQUERQUE

by pbergman 9. March 2008 03:45

Just returned from Albuquerque, New Mexico where I was invited to judge the prestigious Saul Bell Design Award Competition. The competition challenges designers from all over the world to create innovative and original jewelry designs in 6 categories. They are: Gold/Platinum Jewelry, Silver Jewelry, PMC Jewelry, Bead Jewelry, Hollowware and this year Swarovski Create Your own style. Over$30,000 in prize money will be awarded to the winners who will be announced at the International Jewelry Show in Las Vegas. It was a lot of fun. The designs were very exciting and I hope the ones I voted for win. I also met several designers and had dinner with Alan Bell, the owner of Rio Grande, the company that sponsored the awards.

Then it was off to Colorado Springs where I attended the prestigious Independent Jewelers Show at the Broad moor Hotel. Naturally everyone was talking about the price of precious metals and the need to design new pieces that take into consideration the price rise. We are currently working on new and exciting bridal pieces in all metals. Palladium seems to be very popular now in engagement rings as well as bands and we are designing some delicate platinum rings to fill a void in the marketplace.

Next week is the New York jewelry show. I will let you know what’s new in the world of jewelry.

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Visit Me on GroomGroove.com

by pbergman 13. February 2008 16:26

Today, if you pay a visit to a website called GroomGroove.com, you will see my first Expert Tip of Week for grooms displayed on the homepage.

I was approached by Groom Groove, the leading online engagement and wedding website for men, to serve as the exclusive diamond and jewelry expert on a panel of other industry experts in the fields of men’s fashion, fitness, and grooming.  The purpose of my tips is to provide grooms with valuable advice on how to find the right engagement ring for their future bride, and how to find the right wedding bands when the time comes.

My tips will appear on the site - an excellent resource for grooms, best men, and groomsmen - once a month for a year, and will cover topics ranging from how to find the most durable metals, to how to find the best diamond engagement ring for your dollar.

Hope you will be take a peak!

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MY OPENING BLOG

by pbergman 3. February 2008 01:03

Welcome!

I’m thrilled to be posting for the first time on my very own blog.  A lot of excitement has gone on in the last few months and seeing as this is my first time blogging I will now bring you up to date...

My first ever retail jewelry line has just launched. The Life & Love Collection is designed to make every day special and special days unforgettable.  I created the line because I believe every woman deserves diamonds and there was a need for everyday diamond jewelry that real women can afford.  Life’s luxuries should be attainable!  

This blog will aim to provide you with a glimpse into my world.  We will be continuously updating it to give you tips on everything from the best diamond cuts and colors to style hints and we’ll be forecasting trends each season.  I hope it will become your go-to guide for all jewelry, lifestyle and fashion questions.  

Oh, and don’t be afraid to email me with questions!  We’ve created a unique section on the site called “Ask Phyllis” and I will personally post responses to them.

Again – welcome - and I look forward to seeing you soon.
 

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As the president of Mercury Ring Corporation, Phyllis Bergman oversees all aspects of the company, including sales, design, operations, marketing, and client relations.

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